Boyville

Well, i dunno what is really going on...something about men and caves and needing time to find out what he wants.

He confuses the bageebers outta me that one!

I go to his house to give back the stuff i've collected that belongs to him...his key, his drill and bits. He looks at me like i've grown three heads and says why are you giving the key back? i shake my head and say Jim were we in the same conversation last night?

How does one say..."You should date other people" and "I am not ready to be serious" one night and then the next night not understand why the girl is leaving?

So now we've had this conversation about how he just needs time in his "cave" to figure things out. Okay i can deal with that. However the.... you should date other people thing...i dunno...to me it just doesn't say i need space to figure these things out....it says i don't value you at all cause it's no big deal if you find someone else.

It is possible i just misunderstood. That seems to be his take on it. However i do not like being wrong...better yet I have a NEED to be right. So i am deciding here if being right is more important to me than dating Jim. Hmmmm it's a toss up. LOL

Seriously though...i think we have a couple more conversations about how we communicate and what is okay and what isn't okay. I do think i'll wait till he comes outta that pesky "cave" to do so.