So today is a better day in debville...Seems like any time i spend time with Jim the next day is cloud nine like. Ahhhhhh
So last night he took me for Italian food. i had lasanga...So far so good...Hasn't bothered my sugar or my belly. He got me to try coffee too...i hate coffee...But it was good with what we were having.
I am more and more in love with this guy. Last night we were talking about how we think children should be educated. He went to an all boys Catholic boarding school...Not a chance in the world my kid is going to a boarding school. No way am i sending my precious little teenager to a boarding school. NOPE NO CHANCE!
He also has no problem with home schooling...i don't have a problem really but i am not sure i agree with it...it isolates kids from other kids and frankly book learning is great and all...However face it...The relationships we have and the success of our social skills is really where it's at. If you don't get along with people you can be a genius and it won't matter a lick.
What we both agree on is that our kids...um kids that belong to him...kids that belong to me...not necessarily kids we had together....lol...will go to private school.
Next we started...didn't finish the...will our kids...his and mine...go to Catholic School or SDA school...he said that is a different conversation...i pointed out that in fact it's very much the same conversation...he got out of it because we got home and i needed to get home and get some sleep.
I wonder how this is going to work...he being Catholic...me being SDA and the two faiths having seriously opposing view on so many issues. Jim has a very open mind...and has pretty much said anything i can prove from the Bible he will believe. So i am prepairing...we have a lot to muddle through together.
i've made it very clear to him that i follow God 1st...He's good with that. I love that about him!
I've been praying to God....daily...sometimes more...to lead me in this...and it's pretty much exciting because it would really seem He is.
Jim so so unlike every other guy i've dated. Most want me casue i am a hot red head :::wink wink:::: He holds me...hugs me...tickles me...but doesn't grope me or try to take advantage of me in anyway. In fact i am the one who is kinda like okay....you can touch me now!!!! Sheesh!
He's concerned for MY well being. He thinks of things ahead of time....he observes what's going on and suggest things for me to do that make sense...stuff i didn't even think of...amazing man!
He's good to his mom. I love that. His sister and he are close too...i love that too. He spoils me too...like last night...dinner and a movie...just because.
Yesterday i tell him i am going to my sisters b-day party with lots of family i don't know...ask if he wants to come and he says yes! Now i am shocked and floored and amazed because if it wasn't my sister there would be no way i'd go be with a bunch of people i didn't know....and the party is at Tyler's family...lots of whom i don't know. He is so neat.
i wanted to go shooting on Sunday with him...and he said no. Why? He says he doesn't have the time...translated that means he doesn't want to be beat by a girl AGAIN! Me thinks he's a bit chicken....hmmm...i'll have to make sure i cluck around him tonight. tee hehehehehe
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